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Live with Shauna Rae - Day 3 of 100 Days

I want to learn how to handle conflict better

Day 3 of 100.

100 Days of Human Connection.

1 piece of content, every day, for 100 days.

I got another tattoo today.

I bought a few books today:

End Times Fascism and the Fight for the Living World by Naomi Klein and Astra Taylor

The Art of Fighting: The Transformative Power of Conflict by Priya Parker

I heard Priya interviewed on the podcast We Can Do Hard Things. She talked about conflict and the fact that we get passionate and/or emotional when we’re in conflict, is that we care about the other person in some way.

Once a week, I host live journaling and mediations sessions (they’re around an hour) on the app Insight Timer.

Today we talking about:

Trusting in the adventure. Embracing new experiences. Flowing with life. Letting the old fall away. The you belong to yourself so you are never alone.

I wrote:

My soul longs to touch others.

She is lonely.

She feels lost and drifting but also FREE to FLY.

The writing prompt we had in the session this morning was:

What fear do I have around letting go?

I wrote:

What if I am mocked?

What if it only validates that I am a failure?

What if people think I’m a lunatic?

What if people criticize me?

What if I don’t know what to say?

What if people shame me?

What if I let people really see me?

What if I never get work?

What if I never make money again?

What if I am ‘done’?

What if people laugh at me?

What if people cancel me?

And I answered:

Be yourself. Be your awkward self. Be generous, humourous, kind and have humility. Be empathetic and compassionate with others, especially yourself.

#imperfectengagement

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